Exploring the Nature and Experience of Life

  • We Are Moving – This Is Why

    December 10, 2019 by

    I have been longing to experience somewhere new for a while.  I grew up in South Jersey, 20 minutes outside of Philadelphia and have lived between the two ever since.  After 34 years, I am finally moving away. When I went to Penn State for undergrad, I recognized that it was not far enough of… Read more

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  • Children’s Book Reviewed by Dad: Peter Pan

    November 15, 2019 by

    Being 6 years old when Hook came out, I was a big fan, but not one of those fans that remembers all of the lines of the movie. I just liked it. However, I am not sure I fully grasped all of the nuances of the movie, even watching it when I was older.  Only… Read more

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  • The Magical Sleepsuit

    November 15, 2019 by

    Let’s take a few minutes to talk about Baby Merlin’s Magical Sleepsuit.  Damn, this thing is magical indeed!  Weston is about 17 weeks old and he had his best night of sleep in his tiny little life the first night we put him in the Magical suit.  He had entered into a sleep regression for… Read more

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  • Too Many People, Too Little Love

    November 1, 2019 by

    I’ve been contemplating this for a while now, and Kait and I have had many conversations about this. But it is something that I think about often, and I want to share it with you. So, here it is.  This is what I’ve been contemplating — I am going to write it how it plays… Read more

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  • Maternity Leave: A Father/Husband’s Perspective

    October 25, 2019 by

    My wife, Kait, is scheduled to return to work on November 4.  This will be about three and a half months after the birth of our son, Weston.  In the US this is considered a good maternity leave, however, it is not good enough…at all. Kait’s company offers twelve weeks of full pay maternity leave. … Read more

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  • What It Is To Be A Father

    October 18, 2019 by

    Do you know that postpartum depression can affect fathers, not just mothers?  It’s true, and luckily it’s becoming more widely known and accepted.  Personally, I don’t care about labeling what someone is feeling or experiencing.  The important part here is that people understand they are not alone and what they are going through is real… Read more

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  • Dad Struggles | 1

    October 4, 2019 by

    The past few weeks have been hectic to say the least.  Kait and I decided to put our house on the market, and in doing so our lives have become incredibly busy.  Though it is by far one of the most exciting times in our lives, it is also one of the most stressful.  … Read more

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  • Movement is Important, but it is NOT Everything

    October 1, 2019 by

    Movement is the way of the body.  Movement is how the body expresses itself and interacts with the world.  It is one of the ways in which the mind interacts with the world.  When a human or animal can perform highly skilled movements, it is a sign of health and even prosperity.  Simply look to… Read more

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  • Traveling with a Newborn: Cape Cod, MA

    September 27, 2019 by

    This was by far our longest car ride with Weston.  Philadelphia to Wellfleet, Cape Cod, Massachusetts is six and a half hours without stopping or traffic.  So at its best, it is double what we did last weekend, when traveling to Woodstock. We left Saturday morning. I had a client in the morning, so we… Read more

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  • We are Constantly Changing, It’s up to Us as to How

    September 24, 2019 by

    To follow-up on my post last week, Why I Took Out My Earbuds…. I mentioned my Apple products, Audible, and podcasts almost as if the problem is that they exist. That is not the case at all. The problem is always the user, me and you. We choose to use these devices, it’s not necessary.… Read more

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  • Traveling with a Newborn: Woodstock, NY

    September 20, 2019 by

    This was our longest drive yet with Weston.  He was eight weeks old and every day has been different.  The past couple of weeks have been a little rough at times, as far as Weston’s sleeping and our sleep.  He had his best night of sleep yet, six hours straight and then three and a… Read more

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  • Why I Took Out My Earbuds

    September 17, 2019 by

    For last month, I have stopped wearing my AirPods while walking to and from working with clients.  Actually, the last time I remember wearing them was my trip to Tucson, which was one month ago. Typically, over the past 5 years that I have lived and worked in Philadelphia, I would go back and forth between… Read more

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  • Traveling with a Newborn: Ocean City, NJ (Our First Trip)

    September 13, 2019 by

    As you may know, we took our first vacation with our newborn son, Weston.  He hit six weeks old half way through our trip to Ocean City.  Living and working in Philadelphia, we don’t use our car much.  On average, we probably drive it once every 2-3 weeks. Needless to say, Weston has not been… Read more

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